You already know where this blog is going, don't you? That's right! Easter arrived and the classic Diabetes "jokes" hit social media, as they do each and every year. Oh, how we didn't laugh again.
I understand why people try to be funny online. Sometimes, I make a funny on Twitter and it gets a lot of attention. The likes and comments feed into our need for... likes and comments? It makes us feel good to get positive attention by making others happy. Of course, what is funny to some is not funny to others. That's why we enjoy different jokes and the different comedians, I guess.
I'm old enough to JUST remember the notorious famous comedians of the 1980s. Roy "Chubby" Brown, Jim Davidson, Bernard Manning, et al. Their routines were largely based around sexism, racism, ableism and generally being incredibly offensive. As we edged into the 90s, such characters became less popular and their acts were only seen at British seaside towns such as Blackpool. Eventually, they faded away from the public eye as comedy rapidly cleaned up its act after the turn of the millennium.
Phew! So, that's that. The nation grew up and we enjoy "smart" comedy now. We do, don't we?
Step forward Richard Osman. Much respected co-host of Pointless, host of House of Games and occasional sofa warmer on The One Show. Richard is widely regarded as a bright chap. He comes across as witty yet warm and friendly. Certainly not the sort of comedian to compare to Manning & Co. So, it was a surprise to read this tweet on Easter Sunday morning:
UPDATE: Richard deleted the above tweet and tweeted an apology here: https://twitter.com/richardosman/status/1379101305164201991?s=19
I am almost certain that Richard is not a malicious chap. The nature of the tweet isn't aggressive, in my eyes. It seems he is trying to raise a smile with a little poetic humour.
It's not funny.
It's actually very damaging.
Richard has over one million Twitter followers and that kind of social media clout can certainly influence the thoughts of many people. That kind of ignorance can breed stigma, it can breed bullying and it can breed the discrimination many people living with diabetes face. It's ableism. Now that a well known TV personality has published this tweet and (at the time of publishing this blog) has not deleted it or offered an apology for the offence caused, it would seem only logical that young minds, ignorant minds and those who enjoy bullying and upsetting others will repeat it. Perhaps a child will say the same words to another, at school, after the Easter break? Well, Richard from the TV said it! It must be alright.
It's not alright.
Diabetes (note; I'm not referring to type here because ALL types) is recognised as a disability. It appears to be one of the last disabilities that is acceptable to use as a punchline.
It's not acceptable.
Some have replied to Richard's tweet to give him advice on this. Richard replied to a positive comment and (so far) hasn't addressed a single person who explained what the problem is. Silence.
"Lighten up!" exclaimed one .I was almost expecting a "It's only banter, mate!" reply. Obviously the "Joke Police" got a mention. Where would we be without someone referring to The Joke Police, The Thought Police, etc? Thank goodness for that particular reply! Calling out people who make discriminatory comments must have been the issue all along!
I'll drop the sarcasm.
We all make mistakes. Only last year, I retracted a tweet which wrongly mentioned age and sex. That tweet had a lot of likes and retweets but I recognised that I was wrong to mention anything other than a particular person being a monumental idiot. That was the end of that and that's all Richard needs to do. A simple apology and tweet deletion. He'd regain the good faith of the fans he's lost and, who knows? maybe gain increased respect for acknowledging his offensive tweet and perhaps become even more loved than he was before last Sunday morning.
Joke about your own conditions and disabilities, by all means. Leave everybody else alone.
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